"Man is not what he thinks he is, he is what he hides" - Andre Malraux
You might be wondering what I'm going to talk about. Well, let that be a suspence for you !! ;)
So this tale begin's with two friends 17 years old , named Ameerah and Kashish , friendship for them was nothing but heartbeat which was felt from soul.Four years of togetherness, and awesomeness never left their side. Slowly but gradually, trust builded amidst them, closeness grew stronger, warmth became mighty, just pure angels in disguise.
You must be thinking, " Why did I opt to talk about these random girls today?"
But, let me tell you before proceeding, these two are no random girls or my imagination, they are "REAL LIFE" girls.
Happy go lucky girls, always wanting to be together, promises, laughs, cries, hugs, were a part of them.
But, life as always had its own secret for both.You all must be knowing about it already,DESTINY- its a strong word and probably takes away our entire teens era in understanding. This case is no exception but yeah it (secrets) does ruin friendships. Well, its pretty obvious right now that SECRETS is the "SuperHero" of my post today.
Ameerah and Kashish's fairytale friendship, as secrets grew more important, their friendship turned into ignorance and arrogance.
Everything went smoothly until, time stopped, priorities and friendship felt like a burden. Two different sections in school, well treated best friends considered each other as trash and no human.
Indeed, life did take a U-turn.Strangers that became friends, now are friends that became strangers.
It was October 2012, when day seemed gloomy and sad, as though the sky was unhappy. It was that day when Kashish had struggled through day-night to figure what went wrong between them. Everything seemed so bleak.No proper situation or reasons were to be discovered. Kashish , just to save her friendship pulls down her ego and goes upto Ameerah , down on her knees, asking for forgiveness, apology for something she had no knowledge of but sadly no heed was paid.
What wrong did I do? What went wrong? Whats the matter? Why ain't you talking to me? Why is that others are more important to You than me? What is that you are hiding from me?
Speak! Dammit, Speak!! For the sake of God, speak for once and for all ..
Kashish asked and asked till her voice broke into tears. Yet, her questions remained unanswered. Blank, plain blank Goodbye.
Such happy moments, parties, cherished memories, togetherness, lost against Ego and Secrets of those unsaid words , unsolved questions have ruined everything.
Trust broke, closeness became weird, the pure fragrance of friendship had vanished.
When a secret is being shared by You, it is not because he/she needs something from You, but because she has the kind of trust that helped them come out of their insecurities..
No doubt, some secrets if hidden for the sake of saving a friendship or helping one from not being misused, then its highly appreciated by all.
Secrets , but when are shared by false secret keeper's, you are killing and stabbing the trust that the secret teller shared with You..
When a secret is being shared, the secret teller shares a part of his life with the secret keeper..
This might look just to cacky or ahh who cares kinda post..
But you have no idea what kind of pain and what kind of emotional torture one goes through when his/ her secrets are a gossip for others..
Secrets are No less than an Amanah..
The more precious the secret, the stronger the faith.
I do request all the friends, Please come out of your ego's and clear that wall of crap from between , its simple never break anyone's trust.
People trust you not because you're special.
You're special , because there is someone out there who has faith in you.
Treasure it , It's all that matters for a peaceful soul.
Khadija Mir Hashmi
You might be wondering what I'm going to talk about. Well, let that be a suspence for you !! ;)
So this tale begin's with two friends 17 years old , named Ameerah and Kashish , friendship for them was nothing but heartbeat which was felt from soul.Four years of togetherness, and awesomeness never left their side. Slowly but gradually, trust builded amidst them, closeness grew stronger, warmth became mighty, just pure angels in disguise.
You must be thinking, " Why did I opt to talk about these random girls today?"
But, let me tell you before proceeding, these two are no random girls or my imagination, they are "REAL LIFE" girls.
Happy go lucky girls, always wanting to be together, promises, laughs, cries, hugs, were a part of them.
But, life as always had its own secret for both.You all must be knowing about it already,DESTINY- its a strong word and probably takes away our entire teens era in understanding. This case is no exception but yeah it (secrets) does ruin friendships. Well, its pretty obvious right now that SECRETS is the "SuperHero" of my post today.
Ameerah and Kashish's fairytale friendship, as secrets grew more important, their friendship turned into ignorance and arrogance.
Everything went smoothly until, time stopped, priorities and friendship felt like a burden. Two different sections in school, well treated best friends considered each other as trash and no human.
Indeed, life did take a U-turn.Strangers that became friends, now are friends that became strangers.
It was October 2012, when day seemed gloomy and sad, as though the sky was unhappy. It was that day when Kashish had struggled through day-night to figure what went wrong between them. Everything seemed so bleak.No proper situation or reasons were to be discovered. Kashish , just to save her friendship pulls down her ego and goes upto Ameerah , down on her knees, asking for forgiveness, apology for something she had no knowledge of but sadly no heed was paid.
What wrong did I do? What went wrong? Whats the matter? Why ain't you talking to me? Why is that others are more important to You than me? What is that you are hiding from me?
Speak! Dammit, Speak!! For the sake of God, speak for once and for all ..
Kashish asked and asked till her voice broke into tears. Yet, her questions remained unanswered. Blank, plain blank Goodbye.
Such happy moments, parties, cherished memories, togetherness, lost against Ego and Secrets of those unsaid words , unsolved questions have ruined everything.
Trust broke, closeness became weird, the pure fragrance of friendship had vanished.
When a secret is being shared by You, it is not because he/she needs something from You, but because she has the kind of trust that helped them come out of their insecurities..
No doubt, some secrets if hidden for the sake of saving a friendship or helping one from not being misused, then its highly appreciated by all.
Secrets , but when are shared by false secret keeper's, you are killing and stabbing the trust that the secret teller shared with You..
When a secret is being shared, the secret teller shares a part of his life with the secret keeper..
This might look just to cacky or ahh who cares kinda post..
But you have no idea what kind of pain and what kind of emotional torture one goes through when his/ her secrets are a gossip for others..
Secrets are No less than an Amanah..
The more precious the secret, the stronger the faith.
I do request all the friends, Please come out of your ego's and clear that wall of crap from between , its simple never break anyone's trust.
People trust you not because you're special.
You're special , because there is someone out there who has faith in you.
Treasure it , It's all that matters for a peaceful soul.
Khadija Mir Hashmi